“May the Best Man Win”: Woman Dating 3 Men Explains How Each Brings Value to Her Life, SA Stunned

“May the Best Man Win”: Woman Dating 3 Men Explains How Each Brings Value to Her Life, SA Stunned

  • An outspoken woman shared her unconventional dating strategy, revealing she is currently seeing three different men
  • The woman explained on TikTok that each partner fulfils a specific role, ranging from financial support to physical chemistry and companionship
  • The revelation sparked curiosity, with viewers questioning how she manages her schedule and whether her partners are allowed the same freedom
She broke down the specific roles each man played, from providing financial support to offering companionship
A woman explained her unconventional relationship dynamic, where she balanced three different partners. Image: @darealkaymichellee
Source: Instagram

A bold woman left social media users stunned after candidly breaking down her multi-partner lifestyle, and her reasons for having them.

In a viral video, TikTok user @darealkaymichellee urged other women to keep their options open and experiment with dating different people at the same time until they receive a marriage proposal.

On January 19, 2026, the woman described a system where her needs are met by three different individuals. She labelled her first partner as an “amazing provider” who supports her and her children financially, but noted that they lack adult time. This physical void is filled by her second partner, an incredible man who provides satisfying chemistry but is unable to offer financial assistance.

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Each partner brings a unique form of value

The creator introduced her third partner, an older gentleman who focuses on fine dining, shopping trips, and peaceful companionship in exchange for her time and conversation in his garden. TikTok user @darealkaymichellee concluded by advising others to try sating more than one partner, noting that there was a difference between being in a relationship and dating.

Watch the TikTok video below:

SA debates the woman’s reasons

The clip quickly amassed 699K views, 103K likes, and 4.1K comments from a divided online community. Many viewers agreed with her logic, arguing that she is technically single until a man “puts a ring on it.” Others, however, were baffled by the logistics, with some commenting that they could barely manage the energy for a single partner. A recurring question in the comments focused on whether the men were aware of the arrangement and if they were also permitted to date other people while seeing her.

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Others were stunned by her transparency regarding her dating life and her reasons for not setting up
Some viewers debated her "value" system, while others cheered for her unapologetic approach to modern dating. Image: Ketut Subayinto
Source: UGC

User @miller153 asked:

"Can they date other women while being with you?"

User @Chillary Banks commented:

"You're single until you're married. May the best man win 🏆."

User @suebaby added:

"I don’t even have the energy to date one."

User @isyourexpsycho commented:

"My mom did this almost 50 years ago, before she married my dad; she had three boyfriends, including my dad. They all lived in different towns. Once my dad asked her to make things official, she ended it with the other two. They’ve been married for 49 years 🥰."

User @Saintasha shared:

"These comments are not it. Good for you, girl!"

User @amanda said:

"I’d rather date zero until I find the one."

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Source: Briefly News

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Bongiwe Mati (Human Interest Editor) Bongiwe Mati is a Human Interest reporter who joined Briefly News in August 2024. She holds a Bachelor of Arts Honours degree from the University of the Western Cape. Her journalism journey began in 2005 at the university newspaper. She later transitioned to marketing and sales at Leadership Magazine under Cape Media (2007-2009). In 2023, she joined BONA magazine as an Editorial Assistant, contributing to digital and print platforms across current news, entertainment, and human interest categories. Bongiwe can be reached at bongiwe.mati@briefly.co.za