Pregnant Lady With Same Surname as Bae Finds Out 13 Years Later That They Are Related, Mzansi Weighs In

Pregnant Lady With Same Surname as Bae Finds Out 13 Years Later That They Are Related, Mzansi Weighs In

  • A broken-hearted lady had no idea that she and her man were related despite them sharing the same surname
  • Twitter user @miss_wydra took to social media after finding out the news and asked for people’s advice
  • Some were thrown by the fact that she dated a man with the same name in the first place, while others claim the situation is fixable

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Isn’t it a golden rule in life to never be with someone who has the same surname as you? Well, one woman ignored that fact, and now she is sitting with a baby in her stomach from a man who is actually a relative.

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Twitter user @miss_wydra took a chance on dating a man with the same surname, and now she's in a major pickle. Image: Twitter / @miss_wydra
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Love knows no bounds, that’s for sure. However, when it comes to family members, that is definitely where a line should be drawn. Shame, the good sis claims she did not know though.

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Twitter user @miss_wydra took to social media in pure panic after finding out that the man is actually a relative. 13 years down the line and with a baby on the way, she got slapped with this information and does not know what to do with it.

“So me & my boyfriend share a surname. When we first met in 2009 I asked if we not related because I didn't want to date a relative, he refused being related to me in anyway.
“13 years later with a baby on the way he tells me we are actually related.”

Social media users drop their advice in the comment section

While some were totally shocked that she even took a chance in the first place, others were pretty chilled and claimed she just needs to ask for forgiveness in a traditional ritual and all will be well. There were those too who shared similar stories.

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Take a look at the tea that was spilt:

@nostalagichead said:

“I’m related to my wife, and we have 2 beautiful daughters, our parents are distant cousins and we did ask the elders before and they gave us their blessings…so ask for guidance.”

@GilbertMoela said:

“When I grew up I also did the same thing to my distant Cousin. She asked me if we are related I said no. We dated boom 7 months down she found out then said to me we are having our last motabaso then we stop everything. Now we are the best of cousins, inseparable.”

@SineNtombi_ said:

“When you meet someone with the same surname as you why is your initial instinct not assumption that you are related? Beyond assumption, why not pursue knowledge about his family and yours? I don’t know man; it just seems like you didn’t care from the onset. Sorry, all the best.”

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@mbaleenhleee said:

“I don't know but am I the only one who was taught to not date anyone, who shares the same surname as you?”

@abby_twa2 said:

Lady left Limpopo to meet man in Durban who she met on tinder, got blocked before the bus even stopped

In other news, Briefly News reported that yoh, online dating can be a dangerous game! A poor woman used her hard-earned money to take a bus from Limpopo to Durban to meet a man whom she thought could be the one.

Gone are the days when people meet prospective partners in a bar, shop or through a friend. Nowadays, it's all done online, which can sometimes mean drama.

Twitter user @AlphaMale4D shared a heartbreaking clip of a woman who shared that she was blocked by a man she met on Tinder while she was on her way to see him. She used her own money to make the trip and got stood up.

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Denika Herbst (Editor) Denika Herbst is a Human Interest writer at Briefly News. She is also an Industrial Sociologist with a master's degree in Industrial Organisational and Labour Studies from the University of Kwa-Zulu Natal, which she completed in 2020. She is now a PhD candidate at UKZN. Denika has over five years of experience writing for Briefly News (joined in 2018), and a short time writing for The South African. You can reach her via: denika.herbst@briefly.co.za.

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