Who was Patrick Shai? Life story and legacy of the legendary actor

Who was Patrick Shai? Life story and legacy of the legendary actor

Patrick Shai was a veteran South African actor with a career spanning over three decades. He appeared in major local soapies and films like Generations, Soul City, and Zero Tolerance. Patrick's sudden passing in 2022 was a major loss to the country's entertainment industry.

Patrick Shai's biography
Patrick Shai during the launch of Heritage Month 2020 at Ditsong Cultural Museum on September 07, 2020, in Pretoria, South Africa. Photo: Frennie Shivambu (modified by author)
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Patrick Shai started his career in the 1980s as a stage performer in his hometown, Sophiatown. He quickly gained recognition for his great stage performance. His talent propelled his success in both film and television.

Patrick Shai's profile summary

Full name

Patrick Molefe Shai

Date of birth

December 9, 1956

Birth sign

Sagittarius

Place of birth

Sophiatown, Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa

Date of death

January 22, 2022

Age at death

65 years old

Place of death

Dobsonville, Soweto, South Africa

Nationality

South African

Gender

Male

Marital status

Married

Wife

Mmasechaba Shai

Children

Three

Profession

Actor, director, activist

Years active

The early 1980s to 2022

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How old was Patrick Shai?

Patrick was 65 years old at the time of his unfortunate passing on January 22, 2022. He was born on December 9, 1956, in Sophiatown, Johannesburg, South Africa.

What happened to Patrick Shai?

Patrick Shai's cause of death was determined by the authorities to be suicide. He took his own life at his home in Dobsonville, Soweto.

Where was Patrick Shai buried?

The veteran actor was laid to rest at Westpark Cemetery in Johannesburg on January 29, 2022. His unique tombstone is shaped like a triangular prism.

Patrick Shai's facts
Facts about the late veteran actor Patrick Shai. Photo: @philmphela on X (modified by author)
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Who is Patrick Shai's wife?

Patrick's widow is Mmasechaba Shai. The couple tied the knot in the early 1980s when Mmasechaba was only 16 years old, and they had been together for almost four decades.

During their marriage, Mmasechaba almost left him because he was an abusive husband but chose to stay because of the kids. They welcomed three children. Shai had publicly acknowledged being abusive and had worked on himself.

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Patrick Shai's sons, Sechaba and Kopan, and his daughter, Tshepi, have mainly stayed out of the spotlight. The family vowed to preserve his legacy.

While talking to TshisaLive in January 2023 during Patrick's first death anniversary, the actor's nephew, Lekgetho, shared that he remembers his uncle for being a free-spirited individual and always leading by example.

I remember him as a creative person, as an activist and as a person who used to advise us well in the family...I would want people to commemorate him as an individual who fought so hard in his life. He did some things, but he fixed them. He was someone who recovered from his mistakes in the public eye...He forgave people and asked for forgiveness...I want people to acknowledge the kind of person he was before he (died).
Patrick Shai's wife, Mmasechaba
Patrick Shai's wife, Mmasechaba, during his memorial service at Market Theatre on January 27, 2022, in Johannesburg, South Africa. Photo: Luba Lesolle
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Patrick Shai's career

Shai started his career as a dancer with Mzumba African Drama and Ballet at Safari Ranch. One of his first lead stage roles was as Jakes in Sophiatown at the Market Theatre in 1986. Shai made his film debut the same year when he was cast as Lucky in A Place for Weeping.  

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The actor went on to appear in over 20 movies, including made-for-television films like The Land of Dreams (1990), La Ferme du crocodile (1996), Inside (1996), The Gates of Cleveland Road (2000), and The Place of Lions (1997).

In 1996, Patrick played the role of Christmas in the BBC mini-series Rhodes. He also had roles in several television shows like Mission Top Secret, Behind the Badge, Zero Tolerance, Hillside, Soul City, Life is Wild, Yizo Yizo, Generations, The River, and Uzalo soapie.

Patrick Shai was one of the founding members of Free Film Makers of South Africa, an alternative to mainstream television in the country. He received several SAFTA nominations and won several awards for his work, including;

  • The Avanti Trophy for Best Actor (2000) - as Thabang in Soul City
  • The Silver Dolphin Award for Best Screenplay at the Festróia - Tróia International Film Festival
Patrick Shai
Veteran South African actor Patrick Shai. Photo: @news24arts/@mzansimagic on X (modified by author)
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Patrick Shai's movies and TV shows

Project

Year

Role

7de Laan

2017 (Sn1)

Jacob Moloi

Ashes to Ashes

2015-2016

Selogilwe Namanne

Gog' Helen

2012

Hobo

Chandies

2012 (Sn1)

Paddido

The Bang Bang Club

2010

Pegleg

Life, Above All

2010

Dr. Charles Chilume

Hola Mpinji!

2010 (Sn1)

Bra Sporo

Discreet

2008

Boss

Life Is Wild

2007

Umkhulu

Hillside

2006 (Sn1&2)

Dr Kagiso Montshiwa

Zulu Love Letter

2004

Khubeka

Critical Assignment

2004

Charles Ojuka

Zero Tolerance

2004 (Sn1, 2, &3)

Enoch Molope

The Bone Snatcher

2003

Titus

Behind the Badge

2002

Carlos Gwala

Generations

2000 (Sn1)

Patrick Thlaole

The Gates of Cleveland Road

2000

Joe Mabaso/Co-producer

Yizo Yizo

1999

Edwin Thapelo

The Place of Lions

1997

Bruno

The Principal

1997

Ben Moloi

Fools

1997

Zamani

La Ferme du Crocodile

1996

Ibrahim

Rhodes

1996

Christmas

Inside

1996

Bhambo

Cry, the Beloved Country

1995

Robert Ndela

The Sheltering Desert

1991

Constable

Schweitzer

1990

Joseph

Diamond in the Rough

1988

Connors' Thug

Red Scorpion

1988

African Soldier

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Patrick Shai's activism

Beyond acting, Patrick Shai used his influence to raise awareness about social issues, particularly gender-based violence in South Africa. He had been an abusive husband in his marriage, and playing the role on the Soul City soapie led to a personal transformation.

The actor established several men's groups to tell his story and help mitigate the long-standing issue of GBV in the country. He was also an ambassador for Brothers for Life, a USAID-supported campaign that promotes positive masculinity.

Patrick Shai during Nelson Mandela tribute
Patrick Shai is paying tribute to former President Nelson Mandela on December 7, 2013, in Johannesburg, South Africa. Photo: Lefty Shivambu (modified by author)
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Patrick Shai's unfortunate departure remains a sad event for the South African entertainment industry. His legacy lives on through his work as an excellent actor and activist.

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