"This Is Not Life": Mzansi Woman Cries on Camera About Working in Retail, SA Feels Her Pain

"This Is Not Life": Mzansi Woman Cries on Camera About Working in Retail, SA Feels Her Pain

  • A woman's emotional video about the challenges of working in retail has sparked widespread sympathy and conversation online
  • She highlighted the emotional and mental strain of working in retail, while also urging people to check in on their friends in the industry
  • The clip has generated a wave of support, with many users sharing their own stories and offering words of encouragement, while others applauded her for inspiring meaningful conversations about the retail industry

A woman has sparked widespread sympathy and conversation online after posting a raw and emotional video about the challenges of working in retail.

A woman in South Africa cried on camera about working in retail as she shared her story.
A woman from South Africa got emotional on camera as she opened up about her experiences working in retail. Image: elle_mandy
Source: Instagram

In the viral clip, the woman who goes by the Instagram handle Elle Mandy posted a video on 15 July 2025, where she can be seen crying as she opens up about the emotional toll her job has taken on her.

Woman in SA breaks down over retail work

Fighting back tears, she expressed how retail was never the life she envisioned for herself, stating,

“This is not the life I signed up for, nor is it what I went to school for.”

Her heartfelt message struck a chord with many who’ve experienced similar frustrations in underpaid and high-pressure working environments.

She went on to urge the public to check in on their friends who work in retail, highlighting the emotional and mental strain that often goes unnoticed.

"When you get a chance, check on your friends in retail. This is not life, or maybe I'm the weak one," Elle Mandy added in an Instagram caption.

The video quickly gained traction across social media platforms, with many users expressing support and sharing their own stories. Many are applauding her bravery for speaking up and hope her message will inspire meaningful change for retail workers across the globe.

Watch the video.

SA shows support for the woman in retail

South Africans rallied around the retail woman as they took to the comments section to shower her with support, and some shared their own experiences, saying:

Saneh Mkhize said:

"Aww sis, I'm so sorry you're feeling like this."

Mpumi Blue shared:

"I started to have peace immediately after speaking to God and told him to help me not to take everything to heart and try to understand the other person without feeling the need to correct or address people, and trust me. It helps to speak to Jesus in a secret place."

Chef_licks expressed:

"Sending you love and light..I know this feeling."

Thandehka stated:

"More will come, life is just a stepping stone. You’ll be on to the next one before you know it, thandehka. More will come; life is just a stepping stone. You’ll be on to the next one before you know it."

Official_posterchild replied:

"I'm really sorry, my love.. This is the thing, retail is a B * toxic colleagues, rude asf customers.. I'm really sorry, my darling."
A woman from South Africa got emotional on camera as she opened up about her experiences working in retail.
A woman in South Africa cried on camera about working in retail as she shared her story. Image: elle_mandy
Source: Instagram

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Johana Mukandila (Human Interest Editor) Johana Tshidibi Mukandila has been a Human Interest Reporter at Briefly News since 2023. She has over four years of experience as a multimedia journalist. Johana holds a national diploma in journalism from the Cape Peninsula University Of Technology (2023). She has worked at the United Nations High Commissioner for Refugees, PAICTA, BONA Magazine and Albella Music Production. She is currently furthering her education in journalism at the CPUT. She has passed a set of trainings from Google News Initiative. Reach her at johana.mukandila@briefly.co.za