Mzansi Woman Heartbroken as Bae of 5 Years Marries Girl He Met in 2 Months

• One hun got candid about her relationship on social media, and people were shocked at the lady's revelation
• The babe expressed how her man of five years did her dirty in a TikTok video circulating on the internet
• South Africans responded to the woman's story as they took to the comments section, sharing thoughts.
• Briefly News spoke to psychologist and relationship expert Penny Holburn, who shared how one can cope with a breakup

A woman in Mzansi shocked the nation with her heartbreaking story, which has gained widespread online attention.

Woman's bae of 5 years marries girl he met 2 months ago

The hun took to social media to narrate her story under the TikTok handle @wuvejay, where she revealed that she had been in a relationship with her partner for five years but he ended up marrying someone he met in just two months.

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@wuvejay, who has been with her partner for half a decade, expressed her confusion and pain over the sudden change. According to her post, they had been in a committed relationship, and she never saw the marriage coming. She found out about it through social media, leaving her devastated.

The TikTok video sparked a massive conversation among people online, and the footage went viral on TikTok, gathering loads of views, likes and comments within a day of its publication.

Watch the video below:

Expert advice for someone facing an unexpected breakup after 5+ years

While speaking to Briefly News, psychologist and relationship expert Penny Holburn shared how people could over a breaking by saying:

"If you still wish that you were the person he married and would like to be with the person, then you need to grieve. It is a loss and probably quite a hurtful loss. Your dreams and plans have not come to fruition. So, you need to grieve to get over the loss."

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The psychologist and relationship expert advised individuals to avoid hurling themselves at someone, let them choose another, and don't interfere in the new relationship. She also suggested that it is best to reflect on it as it helps with the healing process.

"You may assume you did things wrong, but you may not have. You may feel there is something wrong with you or you will never fall in love again, which is also likely to be untrue. If there is something you can learn, then reflect and talk and learn. Sometimes it is just not your time and you cannot blame anyone. It is just life, and after a time of reflection, grieving, and learning more about yourself and relationships, you need to move forward in your life," Penny added.

SA chimes in on woman's story

The online community was stunned by the babe's story. Many flooded the comments section with questions, while others shared their thoughts.

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My music said:

"Cheating is very painfully shame...andifuni kungatsho."

SeroMash added:

"After six months, if there is no direction, you start looking. We can't tell you everything."

NellaRougeLeQueen wrote:

"You were not his priority. Secondly, you can’t stay that long in a relationship if you have no clarity as to where the relationship is going."

Mis N commented:

"I dated him for five years and during my relationship, he married someone else and even had a child while still dating me."

South African women share their stories of heartbreak

• Briefly News reported that a woman posted a TikTok video sharing how her partner of 20 years left most heartbreakingly.
• A woman felt betrayed and heartbroken after learning what her partner had been up to over the long weekend.
• A trending story on X shows that the man is getting married to another girl instead of his girlfriend.

Source: Briefly News