“Age Is a Word Not a Number, Please”: Woman Shows Loving Relationship With Gent Much Older Than Her

• A heartwarming video showing a woman and her significantly older partner sharing an affectionate moment has sparked conversations about age-gap relationships
• While age-disparate relationships are common worldwide, research in South Africa shows they can have complex implications, particularly for young women aged 16-24
• Social media users had mixed reactions, with many sharing their own positive experiences in age-gap relationships

A touching video of a couple with a significant age difference has sparked discussions about age-gap relationships in South Africa. Facebook content creator @FitSphe shared the clip showing a tender moment between a woman and her visibly older partner as they share a brief, affectionate kiss outside their home.

The creator was not all that excited about the couple and captioned the post with:

"Nizithathaphi ifeelings zotata benu."

Watch the Facebook clip below.

Love knows no age

In the video, the woman steps out of her house when her elderly partner appears in front of her. After a brief exchange, she lovingly brushes something off his face before they share a romantic kiss. He then goes inside while she turns to look at the camera.

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The sweet interaction has resonated with many viewers who believe that genuine connection transcends age differences.

Age-disparate relationships are not uncommon globally or in South Africa. While they often face scrutiny or judgment, many such partnerships are built on mutual respect, companionship, and genuine affection. Research indicates that significant age differences in relationships have existed throughout history and across cultures, though the social implications vary widely.

However, age-gap relationships in South Africa have been studied for their potential health implications. Research data shows that among black South Africans, about 43% of women aged 16 to 49 reported their most recent partnership was with a man five or more years their senior.

For young women around 16 to 24, approximately one-third had relationships with men at least five years older, and 7% with men 10 or more years older.

Social media reactions

Social media users had mixed reactions to the couple with the big age difference, with many sharing personal experiences.

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Some admired the lovebirds, arguing that love and commitment are all that matters. Others debated societal perceptions, financial stability, and gender dynamics in such relationships.

@Lebogang Masibi shared:

"My dad married someone younger than him. Same age group le rona. My father passed ka 2016 mme le nou sisters o single working o dula stel ko ntlung as if my dad is there. Reya ko ene rotlhe if we need anything and she plays that role yabo mother. So eteng true love moo."

@Ndlovukazi Zulu noted:

"It's easy to fall in love with someone who treats u nice/like a woman he truly loves."

@Philadi Winlife confessed:

"My husband is 23 years older than me. We happy ❤️."

@Vusi Khoza observed:

"When someone is broke and sees something like this he or she thinks it's all about money."

@Ghaan Lesufi commented:

"She's safe, there's no long queue of boys behind her, some leaving her with many kids with different fathers, moral of the lesson: if you can find someone who's done with mejolo, grab that person & settle down with him, simple!!!"

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@Sandi Saydah Fusa stated:

"Age is a word not a number bethunana please."

@Marley Greg Pholoholo pointed out:

"If it was man everyone would be complaining."

@Roseline Roz shared:

"There was a 30-year age gap between my parents. And they had the most beautiful marriage. We never even heard them argue. My mom couldn't take another man after he passed. Coz she wanted to cherish their memories till she died."

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Source: Briefly News