“Please Let Me Leave”: Woman Locked Outside on Window Ledge by Bumble Date, Sparks Viral Reactions

• A woman shocked online users after she filmed herself outside a window ledge where she was allegedly locked by her Bumble date
• The TikTok video sparked a massive conversation on social media, the clip gained loads of views
• Netizens reacted as they flooded the comments section, expressing their thoughts on the incident
• Briefly News spoke to a lay counsellor and emotional support expert Astrid Daries about key safety precautions people should take when meeting someone from a dating app for the first time

A woman's Bumble date took a bizarre turn after she found herself locked outside on a window ledge by the man she had met on the popular dating app.

Woman locked outside window ledge by Bumble date

The unsettling incident has since gone viral on social media, leaving many in shock and disbelief.

It seems as though the pair had arranged to meet at the guy's apartment for their date. However, after a brief interaction, things took an unexpected turn when the man allegedly locked her out of the apartment and left her stranded on the window ledge.

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In the video shared by TikTok user @fierce.businesswoman, the woman can be heard pleading with the man to open the door and let her back in as she breathes rapidly in fear. She is also crying as she speaks to the man who locked her out of the house.

"Please, please let me back in. I am just having a bad day, please let me in. Please just let me leave," said the lady in the video.

The footage went viral online sparking mixed reactions from people across the globe. The video clocked loads of views along with thousands of likes and comments within a few hours of its publication.

Watch the clip below:

Safety tips for meeting someone from a dating app

While speaking to Briefly News, lay counsellor and emotional support expert Astrid Daries said the following:

"We are living in the age of technology, where the classic advice from our parents—"Don’t talk to strangers"—is no longer entirely realistic. In today's world, meeting new and interesting people often happens through online dating platforms like Tinder, Bumble, Grindr, Feeld, and many others. This has become the new norm, but it’s important to remain cautious when interacting with strangers online."

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Astrid went on to say that these apps are "genuine" and that people are looking for meaningful connections, however, it’s essential to be aware of potential risks.

"History has shown that some individuals, like the infamous Ted Bundy, used charm and charisma to manipulate and deceive others. Sociopaths and those with harmful intentions can often appear trustworthy, making it crucial to approach online dating with a balance of openness and caution," she added.

To ensure your safety, consider following these simple but effective precautions when meeting someone from a dating app, according to Astrid:

1. Always meet in a public space – Choose a well-populated location for your first meeting.

2. Inform a friend – Let someone you trust know exactly where you’re going and who you’re meeting.

3. Share a photo of your outfit – Before heading out, send a friend a picture of what you're wearing so they can provide details if needed.

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4. Send a photo of the person you're meeting – Share their profile or a recent picture with a trusted friend.

5. Use live location sharing – Enable location sharing on your phone with someone you trust. There are multiple apps available for emergencies.

6. Consider using an AirTag or similar device – Having a discreet tracking device can provide an added layer of security.

The emotional support expert expressed that taking the simple precautions mentioned above during online dating can significantly enhance your safety and confidence, allowing you to enjoy the excitement of meeting new people.

Netizens chime in on TikTok video

People quickly reacted to the disturbing story, expressing concerns about safety on dating apps and the potential risks of meeting strangers. Many commented on the need for caution and highlighted the importance of meeting in public spaces during the initial stages of online dating.

Marcha M Charles shared:

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"It seems like the girl is wrong. She's obviously leaving out important info here, trying to make the guy look bad, but this just makes her look suspicious."

User expressed:

"I feel like he's running away from you. Because he wants to call the police. What did you do to him?"

BeanBandit wrote:

“ 'I’m calling the police' yeah… I feel like you’re not sharing some important context here."

Urbabymomma7 replied:

"Yall defending him, but what justifies locking someone out on a WINDOW on the 20th floor."

Jasonderulolover69 added:

"He gave you a chance to leave, but you went into a room and locked yourself?"

Groundspices commented:

"That’s really scary! Glad you’re okay."

South African women share their online dating experiences

• Briefly News previously reported that one woman was left high and dry by her date whom she met on a dating app and she went on to share her story on social media.
• One woman in Johannesburg shared her experiences with her Tinder dates on social media, where she narrated her story.
• A Johannesburg woman took to her TikTok account and shared her experience with Tinder.

Source: Briefly News