"Bafwethu, Get Married": Man Flaunts the Benefits of Having a Wife

• A light-hearted home video turned into a wider conversation about marriage after a man proudly shared his perspective on having a wife
• The clip tapped into everyday relationship dynamics that many South Africans recognise, especially around partnership, support and shared responsibilities
• What made it relatable was how ordinary the moment was, showing marriage through daily life rather than big statements

A simple kitchen moment opened up a much bigger discussion, reminding people how easily everyday scenes can spark deep conversations about love, commitment and modern relationships in Mzansi.

A TikTok video posted by @missanelexfatherpatric on 17 January 2026 has sparked conversation after a man openly encouraged other men to get married. In the clip, the man confidently spoke about the benefits of having a wife, using his own marriage as an example. He then showed his wife in the kitchen preparing a creamy chicken pasta meal for him, presenting the moment as a reflection of partnership and support in marriage. The video was filmed at home and shared in a light-hearted but proud tone.

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Marriage remains a deeply debated topic in South Africa, especially among younger generations navigating financial pressure, shifting gender roles and changing family structures. While some see marriage as outdated or expensive, others still view it as a source of stability and teamwork. The video tapped into this ongoing discussion by showing marriage through everyday moments rather than grand gestures, highlighting companionship and shared responsibilities.

Marriage conversations in modern Mzansi

The video resonated because it touched on a familiar cultural conversation in a humorous way. Many viewers recognised the playful bragging and the relaxed home setting. The simplicity of the scene made it relatable, turning an ordinary dinner moment into a talking point about relationships and commitment.

Responses reflected a mix of humour, agreement and debate towards user @missanelexfatherpatric‘s video. Some people appreciated the positive portrayal of young marriage, while others questioned expectations placed on partners.

Mzansi reacted with mixed emotions

Sabza Dumakude said:

“Lobolani bafethu. 😅”

Twolee said:

“People are too negative, there are so many beautiful things in this video, the house, the furniture, and there is nothing wrong with that night dress, she’s clean, in her comfortable space and ulotsholiwe. 🥰”

PHOPHI JENNIFER said:

“He’s so happy to have a wife. 😹❤️”

Refilwe said:

“The way you appreciate your wife… ❤🥇”

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NonhlanhlaSimelane said:

“May these feelings never fade in Jesus name 🙏”

Katlegomatsi2 said:

“He said, ‘My wife is in our home’. So proud of you, stranger. May God bless your union. 🥰🌹”

MsZille Sesethu Delman said:

“Umama is in her comfort zone. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with looking like ‘ngikhurume’ in your own home. ❤️”

Mam Mvelase said:

“This is how I want my husband to brag about me. 🥺❤️”

Ntsiki_khunju said:

“I love men who love their wives loudly. 🥰🥰🥰”

Check out the TikTok video below:

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• A happily married couple has shared a list of unspoken rules that they follow to maintain their loving and strong relationship.
• Musa Mseleku caused a stir with his sweet message dedicated to his third wife, Thobile 'MaKhumalo' Mseleku, despite marriage drama.
• 947 radio personality Anele Mdoda had the internet ablaze after revealing details about her recent marriage live on air.

Source: Briefly News