South African Mom of 2 Shares Frustrations About Comments on Her "Skinny" Weight in Viral TikTok Video

South African Mom of 2 Shares Frustrations About Comments on Her "Skinny" Weight in Viral TikTok Video

  • A young woman took to social media to share a video of her tracking the meals she eats in a day
  • The woman also detailed how people comment about her skinny frame and how that leaves her feeling self-conscious
  • The mother of two's frustrations resonated with several other Mzansi women who reacted to the video

A South African woman was left frustrated after sharing how people tend to comment negatively about her appearance and petite weight as a mother of two kids.

skinny mom of 2 meal tracks in TikTok video
A mother felt compelled to track her meals after being tired of being called skinny. Image: @homecafe.withntombi/TikTok
Source: TikTok

Mom of 2 shares frustrations about comments concerning her weight in TikTok video

Ntombi took to social media to share a TikTok video of the different meals she ate in a day. In the clip, she is heard explaining that she has two children and she is skinny.

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The mother shares that the older her children get, the more comments she gets about the fact that she looks like a teenager and people wanting to know how old she is.

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"These comments make me so annoyed, and most importantly, they make me so conscious about the way that I look, especially my weight, so I'm tracking what I eat."

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South African netizens react with supportive words to the woman's viral TikTok post

Several Mzansi women could relate and sympathise with Ntombi's frustrations and responded with kind words.

@Mrs M said:

"But it’s genetics. Like why don’t they get that? I say we all look like this at home."

@The_molefes2ndaddition replied:

"Same, my 14-year-old daughter's body is bigger than mine; people always get surprised when they hear her call me mom because of my tiny body."

@thulisaanelisa commented:

"Add to that the name-calling. Growing up, some even suggested weight gain products for me to my mom. It makes you look at yourself differently."

@chadkhan42 replied:

"Well, you’re eating soo good and clean."

@Sesame wrote:

"I’m sorry you have to go through that. You are perfectly alright no matter what you look like."

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In another story, Briefly News reported that a little girl told her mom one of her biggest fears about growing up and humbled her mother during their discussion.

She said when she is older, she wants to be a skinny adult and doesn't want to be overweight in the clip posted by @logantheempress.

"When I turn into a grown-up, I don't want to be a fat grown-up, I want to be a skinny grown-up."

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Nothando Mthembu (Senior editor) Nothando Mthembu is a senior multimedia journalist and editor. Nothando has over 5 years of work experience and has served several media houses including Caxton Local Newspapers. She has experience writing on human interest, environment, crime and social issues for community newspapers. She holds a Bachelor’s Degree and an Honours Degree in Media Studies from the University of KwaZulu-Natal, obtained in 2016 and 2017. Nothando has also passed a set of trainings by Google News Initiative. Email: nothando.mthembu@briefly.co.za