“I Prefer Dating a Married Man: SA Warns Lady Surprising Boyfriend With Visit at Night

• One brave lady gave Mzansi major chest pains when she shared a clip of herself travelling to her man's house
• She had called him with no response and decided to show up at his place unannounced to confront him
• Social media users were anxious on her behalf and shared their thoughts in the comments 
• Briefly News had a chat with a relationship expert to find out the top reasons why men cheat

A lady named Kamo did not appreciate being ignored by her boyfriend, so she decided to show up at his place unannounced.

The lady caused major chest pains on the internet as Mzansi warned her to avoid carrying out her surprise visit.

SA warns lady surprising boyfriend 

Mzansi women know to only show up unannounced at their boyfriends' places if they want to nurse a broken heart. Most ladies have found out about their partners' infidelity by snooping around and playing detective.

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Kamo did the same. The lady got suspicious after her man ignored her calls all day and decided to show up at his place at night unannounced. She recorded herself on a ride to his home and captioned her clip:

"Something just said stop whatever you're doing and Uber to his place. I tried alerting him, but his phone was off. Pray for me."

Watch the video below:

Mzansi reacts to lady's surprise visit to man's house 

Relationship Therapy Educator Paula Quinsee explained the reasons why men cheat:

“Men cheat for a variety of reasons so there is no one size fits all approach, rather infidelity can be complex."

Some of the common motivators include:

• When emotional needs are not being met in a relationship, some men may seek their validation, attention, or emotional connection elsewhere.
• Some men cheat to escape the boredom or monotony of a long-term relationship so having an affair brings about the thrill of something new in the desire for novelty.
• Cheating can serve as a way for men to boost their self-esteem, feeling desired or attractive in ways they might not feel in their current relationship.
• If a man isn’t fully committed to his relationship, either emotionally or mentally, he may cheat because he doesn’t feel a strong sense of obligation to be faithful to his current partner.
• Some men cheat as a way of compensating for unresolved personal issues such as insecurity, past trauma, or even a need to feel dominant.

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Social media users warned the lady about her impulsive behaviour and commented:

@user 5795439065 commented: 

"At this point, I prefer dating a married man; at least I know he's married; it's becoming scary out here."

@phiwe883 shared: 

"I had that feeling last week, and I went to his place, yho!"

@KefiMatlou highlighted: 

"I prefer finding out rather than being made a fool. I would have followed the feeling too."

@𝓝𝓮𝓸 explained: 

"Chommie? You don't do that; it isn't done."

@Yamyam Sifumba was anxious:

"My dear, I had a stroke on your behalf. Tell me you are okay."

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Briefly News also reported that a young South African lady was in a rush when she received a call from her boyfriend's side chick. The pair were to meet up and discuss their man's disgusting behaviour after they figured out he was a womaniser.

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Social media users were not pleased about the lady wanting to meet her boyfriend's girlfriend and advised her to stay home.

Source: Briefly News