Lady’s Heartbreaking Valentine’s Day Inspires SA Women to Share Their Stories of Leaving Husbands

• A South African woman with a very large following on TikTok shocked her audience with a heartbreaking video 
• The content creator posted a gloomy season in her love life on Valentine's Day and offered a space for more women to do so
• Social media users were bummed by her heartbreaking story and shared lovely words to comfort her
• A relationship expert shared with Briefly News why it’s important for one to go through the divorce process privately

South African women have shared how unlucky they’ve been when it comes to relationships.

Some shared their stories of being cheated on and the reasons why they accepted disrespect in the name of love.

Mzansi reacts to lady’s heartbreaking Valentine’s Day 

A South African lady shared her gloomy Valentine’s Day that broke many hearts on TikTok. The content creator, Hlanganisa filmed herself taking off her wedding ring.

The hun placed the piece of jewellery in its original packaging before taking it out again to flush it down the toilet. Hlanganisa rested on her bed with a heavy heart and captioned her video:

“I don’t want to lie, it’s really not easy.”

More women came forward to tell their stories of leaving their husbands.

Watch the TikTok video below:

Relationship expert speaks on privacy during divorce

A relationship expert, Paula Quinsee, shared that divorce is a personal journey and should be a private matter:

“Divorce is a deeply personal experience and journey, and involving family in decision-making can complicate their own clarity. Family members may mean well, but their perspectives may be biased, clouding your ability to prioritise what’s best for you by imposing their own ideals on you, so it’s best to try and define your own needs and boundaries first before seeking input from others.

“Family members naturally want what is best for us, and they mean well, but will naturally have an emotionally charged perspective on your partner or marriage, making their advice less objective. A therapist or neutral party can provide perspective without the emotional dilemma, helping."

Mzansi reacts to lady leaving husband on Valentine’s Day

South African women shared their stories of leaving their marriages in a thread of over 4K comments:

@Nandinanas wrote:

“I sold mine at Cash Crusaders and went on vacation with my daughter.”

@Mantwanantle🥰❤ commented:

“Another soldier returning home safe, sound and alive. I’m sending you virtual hugs sis.”

@Touch_Yela shared:

“My favourite wedding speech was a dad who said, ‘My daughter, I did not chase you from my house, if this man bothers you, you come home!’”

@Princess Peekay Khum shared:

“I sold mine and bought textbooks for my studies.”

@Baby Karabo wrote:

“I gave mine to a bolt driver who wanted to propose to his girlfriend.”

@Monageng Magabe said:

“Marriage is not for boys and girls. It's for men and women. It’s our 10th year anniversary this year. I thank God for always being with us.”

@malo_weee shared:

“I sold mine and came home with Savannas. I’m glowing differently now. Allow yourself to feel all the emotions.”

3 More stories by Briefly News

• South African women opened up about staying with cheating partners in a thread of comments on TikTok
• A Mzansi gent went viral after explaining to South African women why they get cheated on and advised them
• A cheating husband with a baby out of wedlock outraged Mzansi when he was awarded R800K from his wife's pension fund during divorce settlements

Source: Briefly News