South African Single Dad Says Raising Two Girls is Difficult: "Seeing Them Happy is My Reward"

South African Single Dad Says Raising Two Girls is Difficult: "Seeing Them Happy is My Reward"

  • A man who is raising his daughters alone shared the difficulties of single parenthood with TikTokkers
  • The man's experiences include preparing his kids for the day and feeding them and he has shared similar videos in the past
  • The man's passion for being a present dad was warmly received and celebrated by netizens, some of whom wished to combine their families with his

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A man trended on social media for raising his kids alone. Image: @ayanda_msibi
Source: TikTok

A man shared his experiences as a single father raising his kids, and his dedication to his children touched South Africans' hearts.

The Swati man gave Mzansi a glimpse into his life as a single father to two daughters.

Single dad wows social media with his dedication to kids

@ayanda_msibi regularly posts his experiences as a single father raising his daughters on his TikTok account and shows various aspects of being a single parent. In this video, he is preparing his kids for school, feeding them and taking them to school. His video encourages many men with daughters who feel overwhelmed by being a single parent to think it is possible.

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According to IOL, the country has seen a rise in single fathers who have increasingly been sharing their experiences as parents on social media.

Single dad shares challenges of being a father with Briefly News

Ayanda Msibi, who lives in Midrand, Ekurhuleni, told Briefly News how difficult it is to raise daughters as a man.

"It's been three years raising them on my own. We don't know where the mother is. There are things that a mother can do for them that a father cannot. My young one wants to be cuddled and held when she falls asleep, and I use that time to study and complete my work. I try to give them the love and affection they can get from a female. I'm not that emotional, but I try to be sensitive when it comes to them," he said.

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"My reward is seeing them flourish. The respect they give me is amazing, but the young one is still naughty."

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Women try their luck with single father on TikTok post

Other single fathers, men and women stood behind the man and encouraged him to keep going. Single mothers also tried to shoot their shots at the man.

Mzwakhe Mduduzi Tsha uplifted him.

"I'm in the same boat. You're doing great, my leader."

Zime Zonke said:

"In case you have not heard it, thank you."

Nqobile blessed him.

"Keep up the good work, my brother."

Moahisane tried her luck.

"I have two boys. The other is six, and the other is three. Let's blend the family, my guy."

Stha-Hlumbane commented:

"SBWL blended family nawe. Plus, I have boys."

Olgazonke saluted him.

"It's so amazing to see a man caring for his children singlehandedly. I applaud you."

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Man celebrates how his son has grown

In another story, Briefly News wrote about a man who showed the world how his son has grown.

The man had the child when he was seventeen and had to battle for custody with his baby mamma.

Netizens expressed relief that the child is with the father after the mother ran away with him.

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Source: Briefly News

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Tebogo Mokwena (Current Affairs editor) Tebogo Mokwena is a Current Affairs Editor at Briefly News. He has a Diploma in Journalism from ALISON. He joined Daily Sun, where he worked for 4 years covering politics, crime, entertainment, current affairs, policy, governance and art. He was also a sub-editor and journalist for Capricorn Post before joining Vutivi Business News in 2020, where he covered small business news policy and governance, analysis and profiles. He joined Briefly News in 2023. Tebogo passed a set of trainings by Google News Initiative Email: tebogo.mokwena@briefly.co.za

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