Debate Ignites as Dad Reappears After 30 Years Drunk, Sparking Social Media Frenzy in Viral Video

• One dad caused a huge debate on the internet after he showed up drunk at his son's home after 30 years
• The Twitter video shows the father and his son's interaction, and it went viral, receiving many views along with thousands of likes and comments
• People flocked to the comments section to express their thoughts on the pair's interaction, while others poked fun at the dad
• Briefly News spoke to a lay counsellor and emotional support expert, Astrid Daries, on the importance of a father figure in a male's life

A father plays a crucial part in their children's lives, whether it be male or female. When a dad is not present in a child's life, it leads to many deteriorating issues in both genders.

Dad shows up after 30 years

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This dad thought, what better way to confront the situation than by showing up at his son's doorstep drunk? The old man can be seen standing with an alcohol drink in his hand while dressed in a brown jersey, blue jeans and sneakers. The footage shared by @non aesthetic things on Twitter shows the pair conversing while the son carries his child and his other kid stands next to him.

The father said he owed child support and told his son that he would not be receiving anything. He also expressed to his son that he wanted to be in his life; however, his mother would not allow him to bond with him because she desired "nothing to do with him."

The video of the pair gained massive attraction online as it gathered many views, with thousands of likes and comments.

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The clip left many people with mixed feelings as they rushed to the comments section to express their opinions on the pair's interaction.

Animal's Lover Hub said:

"The reason why he showed up drunk is because he’s not sure how to handle the situation. He lacks confidence and integrity."

Sofia White added:

"So glad he didn’t turn out like his father. Some fathers can never be role models for their kids."

Dog with confusing auras wrote

"He shows him how a real father should be."

GnosisWolf shared:

"That’s only slightly totally depressing. Substance abuse is no joke. The son stayed way calmer than I could’ve. Not sure I’d be holding a baby near him, but hope those kids never go through nothing like that. Having a parent choose booze over his kids is tragic."

David Bowling commented:

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"The moment he told the little one to shut up would have caused me to snap."

The importance of a father figure in a male's life

It is impossible to overestimate the significance of both parents being active in their child's life because each brings something special and distinct to the child's upbringing and growth. A father's future chances and overall well-being are greatly enhanced when he engages in active parenting and assumes his duty with responsibility and determination.

According to Astrid Daries, having a present and engaged father figure can contribute to a child's confidence and social connections.

"Sons, in particular, often look up to their fathers as role models and strive to emulate their behaviours and characteristics. This natural inclination to mimic their fathers can lead to inner growth and strength as they learn from their example," she explained.

Astrid Daries gave her shared her insight into the trending Twitter clip of the father and's interaction, saying:

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"The sudden appearance of an absent father on the doorstep can indeed be a deeply challenging and emotional experience for the son involved. Without a prior relationship or understanding of the father's presence in their life, the son may find themselves grappling with a myriad of conflicting emotions."

She added that in the process, the son may have felt various emotions such as anger, frustration, and even rage, which are "common responses to the unexpected intrusion of the absent father into their life," she adds.

"The sudden disruption of their established routine and the intrusion into their personal space can evoke feelings of betrayal and confusion. The son may question why the father is suddenly appearing after being absent for so long and may struggle to reconcile these conflicting emotions."

The lay counsellor and emotional support expert suggest that if one is found in a minor situation, it is essential to have a support system in place, such as friends, family members, or counselling services, to help one process and cope with the complex emotions that arise from such a situation.

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"Additionally, open communication and understanding from both the father and the son can be crucial in rebuilding trust and establishing a meaningful relationship if both parties are willing to put in the effort and work through the challenges together," she added.

Woman cries about absent father, details traumatic effects

In another similar story, Briefly News, previously on one woman who detailed her trauma of having an absent father, and her transparency resonated with TikTokkers.

She uploaded a clip on her TikTok page @relebo_hile, where she broke down in tears. She complained that people rarely talk about the suffering inflicted by fathers who abandon their children.

Source: Briefly News