“This Kind of Love Will Locate Me”: Woman Shows Progression of Speedy Relationship, SA is Amazed

• A smitten lady who is crazy in love with the man who has just paid Lobola for her showed off how her life has changed in just a short space of time
• The lady posted a video with all the good things that had happened, including her Lobola celebration on her TikTok, gaining massive views
• Her post left many huns wishing for similar luck as they took to the comment section to congratulate and wish her well
• We had the pleasure of talking with marriage counsellor Faith Plaatjie on marriage between two people who recently met

Just a little over six months ago, Thobeka Mazuma was single. She had no idea that she would be ending 2024 with a different title, a change of surname, and many other things that happened in just a few months.

The lady shared a glimpse of her happiness, which started when she joined the Badoo dating app on TikTok under her user handle @maphumephethe04 and received many congratulatory messages.

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Closing 2024 with content

The video compilation clip starts with @maphumephethe04 holding her man, showing the hand with her ring during her lobola negotiation day. It moves to show a restaurant plate with the proposal message, a letter to her family asking for her hand in marriage and the mansion he is busy building for her.

Watch the video below:

Marrying after a few months of meeting

Briefly News had the pleasure of speaking with Faith Plaatjie, a church marriage counsellor, about her perspective on marriage between two people who have only known each other for a short period. Here's what she had to say:

"There's no specific time frame for people to get marriage after meeting, as people are not the same. Some people are like open books and can be understood in a short space of time, while others are more reserved and require time to fully know them.

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In many African cultures, the decision to marry is often influenced by the man's readiness emotionally, psychologically and financially as he is usually the one who proposes and lobola to the bride's family.

Sometimes when God connects soul mates, they feel it from the start, and might not see reasons to wait if both are prepared for the big step."

Mzansi loves happy endings

Social media users filled the TikTok user's comment section with loving messages wishing her. Some prayed for the couple to remain one until the end, while others were ready for the universe to hand them a similar blessing.

User @lalah said:

"This kind of love will locate me. Nibahle unkulunkulu anigcine anikhusele anivikele 😍😍"

User @sanieprecious commented:

"Glory to God, I’m happy for you, stranger 💪"

User @AnelileG added:

"June, as in 6 months ago? Wow 😍"

User @Pearl.Nu shared:

"Congratulations, my love 💐💐❤️❤️😍 love wins 💃💃"

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User @chakazambalie commented:

"Indoda emadodeni (a man in men), congratulations stranger. May God cover your marriage ❤️🙏"

User @realebogannana shared:

"Congratulations, my sis. A man knows when he found a woman he is looking for, not us dating for 8 years 💔😭 "

3 More dating app success stories

• A man paid Lobola for a woman three months after meeting her on the Hinge dating site.
• A lady married her UK lover a few months after meeting him on the dating app Afrointroduction.
• A local babe's Tinder relationship led to a happily ever after, as the couple sealed their love with a marriage certificate at Home Affairs.

Source: Briefly News