Woman Thanks Husband for Embracing Her Past With Three Baby Daddies in a Video
- A young lady took to social media to thank her hubby for marrying her despite having three baby daddies
- The TikTok video gained a massive attraction online, gathering many views along with thousands of likes and comments
- South Africans reacted to the woman's video as they rushed to the comments section to express their thoughts
- Briefly News spoke to a relationship expert and Founder of Engaged Humans, Paula Quinsee, on potential challenges faced by individuals who have children from previous relationships when entering into a new partnership
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One woman celebrated her husband for stepping up in her life, and people clapped for the gentleman.
Source: TikTok
Woman shows her hubby gratitude
A lady caused quite a huge stir online after she revealed that she had three baby daddies. The woman shared footage of herself cleaning her home and dancing on TikTok. She also took the opportunity to openly thank and appreciate her man for looking past the societal norms and stereotypes placed on women with more than three baby daddies and embracing her and her kids.
@rudzie_pande said that her hubby married her and went on to make her a housewife despite having three kids with three different men, which she genuinely appreciated.
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Potential challenges faced by individuals who have children from previous relationships when entering into a new partnership
Speaking to Briefly News, Paula Quinsee shared with the publication that it can be challenging for children to adapt to their new norm.
" Introducing children from a previous relationship to your new partner can be daunting as children, depending on their age, may struggle with feelings of loyalty, insecurity, jealousy, acceptance of what is seen as a new parental figure, and adjusting to a new family structure. It is critical to go slow with this process to build trust through open communication to help ease the transition."
The founder of Engaged Humans went on to say that the different approaches to parenting can lead to conflict and require a certain amount of "emotional maturity" to strike a balance between cooperating and setting limits to protect the children involved.
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"It can also lead to insecurity and jealousy in the new relationship if the interactions are seen to be intrusive and not respecting the new partner."
She also emphasised that financial obligations and responsibilities from a previous relationship, such as child support or alimony, can strain a new partnership. Balancing the demands of a new relationship with existing parenting responsibilities and different cultural or religious backgrounds between partners may pose challenges, but one can overcome them.
Paula Quinsee suggested that couples should address any potential challenges head-on by working through them together as a team "to create a loving and supportive environment where all family members can thrive," she said.
In the end, Paula Quinsee said that it can also be incredibly rewarding despite the many complexities of entering into a blended family.
The clip became a viral hit, generating over 76K views, thousands of likes, and many comments on the video platform.
Take a look at the clip below:
SA reacts to the woman's revelation
Many people were amazed by her revelation, while others showed her love and support as they took to the comments section to express their thoughts.
Moekie shared:
"I attended a wedding over the weekend, the girl has five kids, and the guy still married her, and she's pregnant with her husband's child..."
Beauty Dimpho said:
"You are giving me hope. I have two kids with different fathers. God bless your marriage."
Nosipho added:
"May this kind of love locate me with my two boys."
User wrote:
"Consider your self lucky."
Faith gushed over her marriage, saying:
"You are blessed umphathe kahle."
Netshifhefhe dakie commented:
"SBWL to be your husband's wife."
Mzansi mom praises her husband, who embraces her son like his own
Briefly News previously reported that a woman took to TikTok to openly and lovingly appreciate her husband for loving her and her son from a previous relationship.
A sweet video shared by @zee_jonas shares a montage of pictures and videos of her family as she reveals how her husband willingly got into a relationship with her and loved her son like he was his own.
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Johana Mukandila (Editor) Johana Tshidibi Mukandila has been a Human Interest Reporter at Briefly News since 2023. She holds a national diploma in journalism from the Cape Peninsula University Of Technology (2023). She has worked at the United Nations High Commissioner for Refugees, PAICTA, BONA Magazine and Albella Music Production. She is currently furthering her education in journalism at the CPUT. She has passed a set of trainings from Google News Initiative. Reach her at johana.mukandila@briefly.co.za
Paula Quinsee (Certified Relationship Therapy Educator and founder of Engaged Humans) Paula Quinsee is the founder of Engaged Humans, facilitating connection between individuals and organisations to create a more human-connected world. She is a certified Imago Relationship Therapy educator and facilitator, NLP practitioner, PDA analyst, coach and trainer. Paula is also the author of two self-help guides - Embracing Conflict and Embracing No - as well as an international speaker, advocate for mental health and activist for gender-based violence.
