Nhlanhla Mafu Rubbishes Claims That Her New Lover Is Causing a Rift Between Her and Theo Kgosinkwe

• Mafikizolo band member Nhlanhla Mafu denied claims that her boyfriend is causing tension between her and her fellow bandmate Theo Kgosinkwe
• Sources close to the pair said things haven't been good with Mafikizolo since Nhlanhla met her man
• Imago Relationship Therapy Educator and Facilitator Paula Quinsee shared with Briefly News the importance of personal relationships should be balanced with professional commitments

Mafikizolo band member Nhlanhla Mafu finds herself making headlines again after she debunked claims of her splitting with her longtime band and bandmate Theo Kgosinkwe.

Nhlanhla's new man accused of causing a rift between Mafikizolo

With Mzansi's long-standing band turning 25 years in August last year, Mafikizolo found themselves again trending.

In September 2023, there were claims that Nhlanhla Mafu was leaving the band to pursue her solo career, which she later denied, and now there are claims made by sources that her new boyfriend, who is only known as Jerry, is causing a rift between her and fellow bandmate Theo Kgosinkwe.

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According to ZiMoja, close sources claimed that Jerry aims to manage Nhlanhla and pursue her to start a solo career. They also claimed that the situation between Mafikizolo has been bad ever since Nhlanhla met her new man.

"She isolates herself by sitting in the car, and after performances, she leaves immediately. This is not the Nhlanhla we know. She is now acting like a celebrity even to us."

It was also claimed that Nhlanhla and Theo are no longer tight like they used to be before, and it was also added that Mafu doesn't get along with people she knew all her life, such as a Mafikizolo dancer Cedric the Tsonga Boy.

"This individual clearly desires control over every aspect. His intention is to oversee Nhlanhla, initiating the process by creating divisions within the team. The extent of this influence remains uncertain, especially considering Nhlanhla's previous attempt at a solo career, which did not succeed. We'll have to observe and wait to see how the situation unfolds," the source said.

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When the publication contacted Nhlanhla, she brushed the allegations and said some peeps were bored.

"I am not working on a solo project. People are just bored."

Relationship Therapy Educator and Facilitator Paula shares her insights

The founder of Engaged Humans, facilitating connection between individuals and organisations, Paula Quinsee, shared with Briefly News her perspective on how personal relationships, especially romantic ones, should be balanced with professional commitments, particularly within the context of a long-standing musical partnership like Mafikizolo.

She said:

"Achieving a work-life balance is often seen as an unattainable goal, prompting a shift in perspective towards work-life integration. Recognising that balance varies for individuals based on life stage and desired lifestyle, effective communication emerges as the linchpin for success in navigating this integration.

"Open discussions between partners about expectations, home and workplace commitments, and the needed support create a foundation for managing responsibilities. Such conversations facilitate organisation and planning, reducing the potential for conflicts and offering mutual support during challenging times.

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Paula also shared with Briefly News how personal relationships should be managed to ensure they don't negatively impact the creative and collaborative aspects of a band:

"It’s important for couples to talk about these demands, their potential implications, and how they can protect their relationship from being impacted by them. At the same time, a partner must understand and support these demands.

"Being understanding and flexible towards each other's personal situations prevents personal matters from spilling over into the professional realm, adding more pressure to the situation. Building a space of trust, respect, and open communication significantly contributes to managing personal relationships within a musical partnership like Mafikizolo without negatively impacting creativity and collaboration."

Nhlanhla Mafu will be showcasing her NN Vintage brand at the NYC Fashion Week 2024

In more entertainment news, Briefly News previously reported that it has been 17 years since Nhlanhla Mafu began her clothing brand, and she is already ticking the NYC Fashion Week off her bucket list. The Mafikizolo singer told Briefly News that her mother inspired her clothing line.

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Source: Briefly News