Woman Receives Message to Leave Her Man, SA Warns Her by Reading Between the Lines

• A woman on TikTok was shocked after a stranger sent her a message warning her to stay away from her man
• The lady posted the baffling text on TikTok, and it went viral on Friday, garnering almost half a million views 
• Social media users warned the youngster to avoid challenging the woman and to do as she instructed 

A young South African woman was stunned after receiving a damning message from a stranger.

The lady shared the text with her online friends, who advised her after reading between the lines.

Woman receives text from boyfriend’s girlfriend 

A young South African woman, Andile Msibi, trusted the internet to deal with her relationship problems and exposed the lady, Samantha Mafu, who sent her a damning text. The other woman claimed to be the official girlfriend of Msibi’s man.

She wrote:

“Hey, I'm not trying to be bitter, but I've been through so much in this relationship, and I'm willing to fight. This guy and I have a kid together, he is my life and my everything. We've shared a lot of memories and a lot of personal stuff, we even went to the extent of talking to our ancestors. I'm humbly asking you to let this one go for me because I'm not willing to let go without a fight.

“I'll fight for this relationship with everything that I have, and I will always share a special bond, and we will always meet up, so please stay away from my man. We met yesterday and we had sex. He called me to tell me that he loves me and he's coming home soon, so please don't break this little family of mine.”

Msibi was stunned and said:

“Whoever knows her, please reprimand her. This is embarrassing.”

South Africans advised Msibi to do as the other woman instructed because she might bewitch her. People shared what could happen if the lady stayed stubborn.

Watch the TikTok video below:

Is confronting the other woman a good idea?

Confronting your boyfriend’s side chick may seem like a way to reclaim control, but relationship experts generally advise against it. While it's natural to feel hurt and angry, addressing the other woman often worsens the situation without resolving the underlying issues.

According to Guy Stuff Counseling, confronting the person your boyfriend is seeing can lead to more problems. It might make things more tense, cause emotional pain, and even lead to arguments. The other woman might lie or get defensive, which could leave you feeling more hurt and confused. Also, your boyfriend might get mad at you for reaching out to her, making things even worse in your relationship.

Instead of confronting the other woman, experts recommend focusing on your relationship with your boyfriend. Engage in open and honest communication with him about your feelings and the breach of trust. Consider seeking couples counselling to address the issues and decide on the future of your relationship. If your boyfriend is unwilling to end the affair or take responsibility, it may be necessary to reevaluate the relationship.

Mzansi warns lady with cheating boyfriend 

Social media users were stunned by the lengthy message on Instagram:

@TQ_Nkosi daily wrote:

“Please do not underestimate the power of a woman who’s willing to do anything to keep a man that she loves.”

@Esethu Makaluza said;

“As long as you know she means witchcraft.”

@AusMel explained:

“Everyone warning you to leave the guy alone is on Samantha's side and wishes they had the guts to practice witchcraft as she does. None of them are asking why he isn't loyal to Samantha. You do what works for you, sisi.”

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Hilary Sekgota, Human Interest HOD at Briefly News, contributed to this article.

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