“I Don’t Want a Broke Wife”: Man Helps Bae With Her Assignments in Video, Mzansi Reacts

• One gent had tongues wagging online after he shared a clip of him helping his partner with her assignments
• The man's comments on the post left many people with mixed reactions, and it went viral online
• Social media users flooded the comment section, expressing their thoughts, while some shared their experiences
• Briefly News spoke to relationship and sex educator Kelley Nele about the importance of a partner help each other achieve their goals

This man showed off how he helps his girlfriend with her studies, and people had mixed reactions.

Man helps bae study as he does not want a broke wife

In many people's eyes, this gent may have won boyfriend of the year, but not to some. The young man posted a clip on TikTok showcasing how he helps his girlfriend with her assignment, stating he does not want a "broke wife" in the future.

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@arnoldmzamani's footage grabbed the attention of many, causing quite a stir among social media users who took to the comments to crack jokes while some expressed their opinions. The post generated loads of views, likes and comments.

Take a look at the video of the gent with his bae below:

Why is it essential to help your pattern achieve their goals

While speaking to Briefly News, relationship and sex educator Kelley Nele told the publication that playing an active role in a partner’s success can seem harmless due to the nature that each partner wants: "wants a supportive partner and being a supportive partner."

"Being overly involved can be detrimental to our relationships. Not only can it cause dependency issues and loss of one’s self, but it can cause us to live vicariously through our partner—which is a hollow way to exist—as well as create resentment over time, she explained.

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The relationship expert went on to say that it is essential not to "overplay our role in someone else’s life."

"While it is important for us to support our partner’s endeavours, we need to remember that their success is not our responsibility. If you are more preoccupied/consumed with their issues, this is a red flag. The best way to support our partner while cultivating our own independence is to pursue things (career, hobbies, etc) outside of our partner that give our life meaning," she added.

People react to the couple's clip

Many took to the comments section to express their thoughts on the post, while others shared their experiences with their partners.

Mahlakommekwa said:

"My ex-boyfriend bought me a new laptop, at the time of loadshedding, he would drive around areas where there's a network at night, sleeping in the car for me to study."

Ms vee shared:

"My baby daddy applied for varsity for me &used to help with assignments, but he still left me."

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Manyike_thoko0 added:

"My late fiancé used to help me, too. God bless you, my brother."

Thando commented:

"I love this: men helping women to achieve goals, too."

Tyco cracked a joke, saying:

"You are preparing her for her type."

Many took to the comments section to express their

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Briefly News previously reported that one woman went through the most all in the name of "love" for indoda. The hun shared her story, which caused a shock wave across Mzansi.

A lady sat down for an interview with a woman who goes by the social media handle Madam Speaker. During the interview, the woman was candid about her relationship with a police officer. The woman told Madam Speaker that she had bought a car for her ex and taken out a loan.

Source: Briefly News