“Time for Me to Be Selfish”: Woman Explains Why She Avoids Dating Baby Daddies in Video

• A woman who’s proudly childfree by choice jumped on TikTok to spill the tea on why she avoids dating men with kids
• In her video, she didn’t hold back, calling out the baby daddy drama and the baggage that comes with it
• The clip stirred up all the feels, sparking a lively debate in the comments with many women sharing their own baby daddy experiences

A woman who’s proudly childfree by choice took to TikTok to explain why she avoids dating men with kids, and she didn’t hold back.

Childfree woman explains dating rules

She @reneiloematlaisane broke down the reasons she’s not interested in baby daddies; mainly because of the drama that often comes with them.

The lady explained that dealing with the past dynamic between a guy and his baby mama is a headache she’s not willing to take on. Plus, the excuses some men give for not being present fathers just don't sit well with her.

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Relationship deal breaker

She also touched on another major deal-breaker: baby daddies who expect their new girlfriends to help take care of their kids. The TikTokker is not about that life and made it clear she’s not going to play a weekend stepmom when she’s chosen to be childfree.

Watch the video below:

Mzansi discusses baby daddies

Her TikTok sparked a big debate in the comments, with many women backing her up and sharing their own experiences of dating men with kids.

@SoniKanyi mentioned:

"Reason I don't associate myself with baby daddies? I do not partake in problems I didn't create."

@FifyCate9 wrote:

"You give me the courage to be proud of myself every day and stick by my choice of not dating a baby daddy. I worked hard to be 30 without a child 😍"

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@Rati stated:

"I was on a date with someone only to find out he has 5 kids with 5 different women. I immediately lost interest, and I was called selfish for that."

@NtokozoStacy-leeLottering shared:

"When I say this, people say a lot of people our age have kids anyway so you'll have to settle. Please I'd rather not date. 🤡💀"

@ziintle asked:

"Are you child-free or waiting for marriage to have children?"

@Rina commented:

"You so brave girl. Go for it. My daughter is 27 and I totally support her."

@AsandaNgubo said:

"I’m just tired of not coming first. It’s time for me to be selfish."

@LindokuhleEuphenia added:

"Standing on business as usual. Keep it up, babes."

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Briefly News also reported that a woman on TikTok shared an appreciation post for her husband who married heterosexuals despite society's regulations.

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The gent married her with her four children from different fathers. Mzansi was baffled by the gent's kindness and shared their mixed feelings in the post's comments.

Source: Briefly News