“Men Always Choose Themselves”: Woman Dumped After Renting and Buying Boyfriend a Car, SA Astonished

“Men Always Choose Themselves”: Woman Dumped After Renting and Buying Boyfriend a Car, SA Astonished

  • A woman shared a heartbreaking story about how her now ex-boyfriend dumped her after she had been financially supporting him for a year
  • She revealed a few things she had done in the relationship for him, in a post shared on TikTok, only for him to label her as needy and unstable
  • Social media users flooded the comment section, apologising for the bad treatment she endured in the relationship while others found her generosity hilarious
TikTok users were in shock after a lady disclosed that she paid rent for her ex-boyfriend for a year
A woman shared that her ex who she was financially taking care of dumped her after she got him a car. Image:@wuvejay
Source: TikTok

Love can be unpredictable, and relationships don't always follow a logical path. Many people enter relationships with good intentions, only to find themselves in situations where their kindness is taken for granted. One woman's experience left social media users in disbelief after she shared how the man she was dating ended things with her despite all she had done for him.

The woman, TikTok user @wuvejay, posted a clip detailing her experience. She revealed that she had been financially supporting her now ex-boyfriend for an entire year.

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The woman gets dumped by her man

In the clip, @wuvejay is sitting infront of the camera amused, recalling how love blinded her. In the caption, she details that she paid her boyfriend's rent for a year and also bought him a car only for him to call her mentally unstable and needy, and dump her.

Watch the TikTok video below:

SA debates about the lady's post

The post went viral, with thousands of users flocking to the comment section to share their thoughts. Many expressed outrage at the man's audacity, with some advising @wuvejay to see it as a lesson learnt. Others joked about how men often fail to appreciate the support they receive until it's too late. Some users, however, questioned why she had taken on such a financial burden in the first place.

Social media users advise women to put themselves first in their relationships
A lady had social media users stunned after she shared how her ex hurt her. Image: @wuvejay
Source: TikTok

User @Aluwanieblack said:

"Sorry mama."

User @YimuZeeBenithini🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦 commented:

"I love how men always choose themselves😊, we should learn😘."

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User @Nya added:

"You were a good man to him 🤦🏾‍♀️don’t do that again."

User @Nkosazanacarlady shared:

"You can’t love a person to that point baby."

User @Phindile✨added:

"Thank you for going through that so the rest of us NEVER do that for any man, we learned through your mistakes ❤️took one for the team."

User @Nthati Meso said:

"You defied the laws of nature ❤️you were giving what you needed. I hope you bring back all that love to yourself. Don’t do it again🥰."

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Source: Briefly News

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Bongiwe Mati (Human Interest Editor) Bongiwe Mati is an experienced reporter currently working under the Human Interest desk at Briefly News since (Aug 2024). Prior to joining the Briefly team, she worked for a campus newspaper at the University of the Western Cape (2005) before joining the Marketing and Sales department at Leadership Magazine, Cape Media (2007-2009). She later joined BONA magazine as an Editorial Assistant (2023-2024), writing for digital and print magazines under current news, entertainment, and human interest categories. She can be reached at bongiwe.mati@briefly.co.za