"I'm Still Troubled": Woman’s Unsettling Discovery While Bae’s at Work Leaves Mzansi Talking

• A lady in South Africa took to social media to showcase what she had found while her bae was at work
• The TikTok video sparked a conversation on the internet, and it gained massive traction
• People in Mzansi flocked to the comments section expressing their thoughts and some cracked jokes
• Briefly News spoke to relationship expert and Founder of Engaged Humans, Paula Quinsee, on how to manage feelings of betrayal when discovering something unexpected

One hun left social media buzzing after making a surprising and unsettling discovery while her partner was at work.

Woman makes unsettling discovery while bae is at work

The woman who goes by the handle @nalediieymeje325 on TikTok shared her story online, revealing that she found something unexpected in her boyfriend’s personal belongings that sparked a wave of reactions across social media.

@nalediieymeje325 explained how she spent her day at home, casually cleaning until she stumbled upon an unusual object. While she didn’t initially intend to go through his things, curiosity got the better of her and what she found left her shocked.

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She stated that she found a She Bin, which is used to collect and store sanitary waste. The hun also discovered that her brush contained weave hair, which "surprised" her since she does not wear weaves.

The woman revealed how she felt about the incident while taking to her comments, saying:

"I'm still troubled by what happened. What bothers me is that I didn't respond right away after recording that video, and it actually brought me to tears later on."

@nalediieymeje's discovery has raised eyebrows among many social media users, with some even joking that she might have found more than what she bargained for. The video went viral on social media, gathering loads of views and thousands of likes and comments.

Watch the clip below:

Managing betrayal after an unexpected discovery

While speaking to Briefly News relationship expert and Founder of Engaged Humans, Paula Quinsee, explained to the publication that discovery of unexpected evidence of another person’s presence in your home (such as sanitary waste and weave hair) can be a shock to the system and trigger strong feelings of betrayal, suspicion and insecurity.

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The relationship expert advised that before making emotional and irrational decisions, use this approach to handle the situation:

1. Try to remain calm – avoid jumping to conclusions before gathering all the details as there may well be explanations you have not considered.
2. Open communication – instead of making accusations, ask your partner calmly about what you have found and observe their response and reasoning.
3. Acknowledge your emotions – feeling betrayed can cause us to experience anger, sadness, and anxiety, so take the time to process your emotions before confronting your partner.
4. Assess your relationship boundaries – if there is a history of dishonesty, this discovery can point to deeper issues and impact trust in the relationship.
5. Decide on your options – once you have heard your partner’s response and perspective, assess the impact on your relationship’s overall health to determine your next steps, which could be needing some time apart, seeking professional help to reevaluate trust and boundaries moving forward.

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SA reacts to woman's shocking discovery about her man

The online community flooded the comments section expressing their thoughts, with many who offered advice to the lady, while some poked fun.

Morwa rre said:

"Allow him to cheat in peace, don't ask umfana about another lady, work on urself and get another man period. Water urself baby, now move silently."

MapzBranch86 wrote:

"Nna kere as long as you're not married to him, both of you le di cherie tsa gage, your fellow sista ne a tlile n le wena o tlile ur turn Maar ke life chomi, we move on."

User wrote:

"She left it there purposely....that's just how they roll."

Virginia8109 expressed:

"And vele you thought you were the only woman for him, come guys."

Peachers cracked a joke saying:

"The devil you know is better than the one you don't know."

Confleswakgati1 commented:

"If you don't stay with him full time, chances of cheating are 99.9% , ke mjolo Ausi."

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Papa poked fun:

"Being a side is also not too bad, welcome to the league of the independent single mothers."

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• A baddie with two kids from married baby daddies received a lot of backlash online after sharing a video saying both men left her alone to raise the kids after promising her the world.

Source: Briefly News